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| Subject: It's truly been fun. Thu Jun 19, 2014 11:38 pm | |
| short version: I'm running away due to paranoia and shame, and I realize I need to be more focused on things. long, autistic version: - Spoiler:
The idea occurred around half an hour ago(From the moment this particular sentence was typed) that I should probably make a farewell thread before leaving. Before, I always saw farewell threads as a way to get a last bit of attention before disappearing into the abyss, but I suppose I can see why people make them now. Emotional closure.
To put it short, I'm sorry for wasting everyone's time with the VN project. I was really enthusiastic about it, but then I disappear away and thus the project is dead. It's my fault, and I apologize for wasting the time and/or effort everyone who's involved and is pissed at my failure. I have no excuses, I can't stand the smallest signs of conflict and argument(Caused by me no less) or any sort of expectation on what I should be doing as project leader, hence I disappear for days at a time after discussing stuff. Probably goes to show I shouldn't bother starting up the project in the first place. Whether it's cuz I'm a shit leader or I don't have passion, in the end I ran away and everyone's efforts(Which to be honest, wasn’t too much except from Centrik. We barely started, we didn’t do anything, but knowing that doesn’t make me less scared of here) were wasted, and now I’m scared to come back. The following words come off as sarcastic to even me, but I hope at least to concerned people, it means something when I say that I'm ashamed of myself, and I hesitate to come back and have fun with you all. That’s why I’m going to run away, because I can’t handle it. Cowardly, I know. I’ve always been bothered by the smallest of things, and nothing’s going to change that.
The other reason I’m leaving is that ever since I’ve started avoiding this place for a while, I’ve realized I’m probably too emotionally dependent on the people here. Sounds nice and caring and all, but really that’s not a good thing. I open up the cbox once every few seconds to see what people say before closing because I realize I was supposed to avoid the place, and I feel sad when I’m not chatting, not gonna deny it. Ever since I became a regular a number of months/years ago, I come here whenever I’m on an open laptop with internet connection and not surrounded by people, which means pretty damn often. I’ve sunked more hours lurking in chat than I have spent on Melty Blood’s training mode. I’m running away from here, either to some other not-as-awesome community, or away from online communities altogether. I want to be less dependent on things. There’s nothing wrong with being dependent on friends for emotional stability, but personally I view it as a sign of weakness, and I can’t stand the fact that it applies to me. It’s not as big of a reason as the first one to me, but it’s a reason.
Am I making too big of a thing out of this? Oh hell fucking yes. Am I just trying to get some sympathy? Perhaps. Am I just making up drama for some attention? Probably. Doesn’t make me feel any less guilty or scared of coming back.
What compels me to write this long-ass thing? I hope that by making it, I’d feel more compelled not to open WDA at all, and maybe have some emotional closure to myself(The other answer would be autism and paranoia, and dumbassness). Also, being known as the guy with the longest farewell thread in the WDA community ain't a bad thing to aim for. I’m simply typing all this down for some level of self-satisfaction, I won’t deny it, so feel free to label me whatever for running away. Am I even really running away? All I’m doing is leaving one specific online community for no good reason, does that act deserve a label as noble as that? That’s one of the problems I’m worrying about.
With that said, no matter how many times I rewrite this thing, it’s always going to be at least a bit long-winded, pretentious, self-hating(but not emo, I’m not emo, I insist, really) and hypocritical, so I suppose I’ll just go the full way and address as many of you all as I can, regardless of intimacy. I’ve never been fond of farewells not addressing everyone, even if it’s perfectly understandable why, but I’m gonna try. Whenever I see a farewell thread of someone I recognize and I don’t see my name on it, I feel a little twinge of sadness, very much unreasonable to feel that way, but what can I do? Hence I’ll address as much as I can. If I address you and you don’t remember who the hell I am, it’s cool. - Spoiler:
Nour: While thinking up who to address last is pretty easy, thinking who to address first is pretty hard, but I’ve decided that you, Nour, probably fits the criteria. You’re like, 11 now? The real world is only going to become harsher the more you grow up, and I hope you stay a good person in spite of that. Also, do try to get along with Mido a bit better. He’ll deny it, but I think he’d be happy if he gets along with his sister, no incest involved. Really. I barely know the guy but I don’t doubt that’s the case.
Supa: The true idol/icon of WDA. Always warm and accepting of everyone, friendliest guy all around. You might be a little uncomfortable with the praise, but I hope you stay the way you are as well. I have a feeling you’re not quite this sweet irl or anything, and perhaps you’ve a much darker disposition, but whether that is the true you, or whether the online you is your true self, that’s up to you to decide. Maybe I’m just looking too much into it, in which case dismiss me. I’m sorry, but I have a tendency to think I can read people when I really can’t.
Al/Fish/J.J Knight: This is pretty rude of me to say, but sadly I haven’t hanged around you three all that much, and aside from some differences, you three might as well all be the same person to me. Take this not as praise or flattery, but as a relatively neutral statement when I say that the three of you are the most mature (Or at least, the most level-headed) people in the community, and thus I find it a little hard to really talk to both of you much. It’s cool, I just dunno what to say around you all since I like fucking around and my impression is that none of you like people who fuck around and troll and stuff. Just gonna say, peace out, I guess?
Kimo: Not something I really like to say since it’s just downright rude(again) and malicious, but your positiveness annoyed me more than a few times. With that said however, you’re probably one of the most bro people around here. Don’t take my annoyance to heart, my disdain for it aside I think it’s great to be positive and preserve your childishness. I wish I was less of an ass, then perhaps I’d be more eager to bro out with you, but since I’m not, I hope you brighten other peoples’ days in place of me. Stay cool, Monokuma.
Armand: The other most bro guy of WDA. If I recall Digi returned to WDA like, super recently. I know you two have some history together, and I don’t know if you two get along, but if not, I hope you do. That aside, magnificent taste in waifu you have, and I really hope your college credits situation goes well, if it didn’t go well already. Haven’t talked to you lately so I’m out of the loop.
Earl: The other most level-headed of the people here, I think. You’re simply a magnificent member and contributor to here, and sadly, I don’t have much to say. I recall that one time the chat was so fucking argumentative, and you were pretty angry at how immature we were, and again, sorry ‘bout that. I don’t know much about your circumstances, and while that fills me with regret, at the same time that’s exactly the kind of relationship I want to have with everyone, so I suppose at least with you I was successful.
Centrik: Really, really sorry to have wasted your musical talent and efforts on something that I’ve effectively abandoned. If I recall, we didn’t really even talk much even though you were present for a long time, only a while later did we talk much and all. Still, keep that k. spirit going strong.
Saty: Hope you will eventually find a good girl to settle with in a romantic relationship. In hindsight, you had pretty bad luck with girls actually, now that I think about it. Also, as the first mechabro I met here, I do hope you’ll enjoy SRW 3 and beyond when you get to it.
RD: The second mechabro, although if I recall you were here longer than Saty. We really only barely talked, but you like gunplay, that’s fucking bro material right there. Peace.
Re: I know you got people to watch Gaim so you can discuss it with friends, but I’m too scared of coming here tbh, so even though I’m into it, I won’t be discussing it. Anyways, third mechabro, you were great to talk to, and I own you for introducing me to OOO and Gaim and beyond. Also, Micchy a shit.
Lesbi: We argued a lot back that one time, and I still can’t really stand your point of view on the matter, but you’re one of the reliable presences on here, and I wish I had gotten along better. That does remind me, you like mecha as well(to an extent, at least), so that’s mechasis 1.
PW: Oh the amount of times I’ve been annoyed at you, whether for Higurashi fangirling or otherwise, but still, you added to the fun I had here. Don’t annoy too many people, and keep at it alright?
Susan: My boy, you were too often picked upon, but I always knew you had it within you, to become the permanent presence you are now, and hopefully one of the pillars of WDA(No sarcasm). We barely talked, but again, as much as you annoy people your presence is fun.
Mirasi: Your overconfidence is probably going to be detrimentive to you in the long run, but other than that and the unfunny sex jokes, you’re fine. Bob the Builder TCG was fun as hell, and I hope you keep playing it.
Vettel: Maybe it’s all in my imagination, but you have a pretty aggressive aura, and that makes hard to talk to sometimes. I know you from the days I hanged in DNF chat, and I still don’t have much to say, just er, peace out?
Ryuuji: I mix you up with RD a lot, so my words to you are more or less the same, excluding mecha. Sorry I don’t have much to say.
Surb: I have a feeling you’re gonna say something among the lines of >josh was addressed before me ;_;. I dunno why you’re gone now(If what I heard was right anyways), but don’t ever lose the loliconism inside you.
Digi: Haven’t talked to you at all ever since your most recent return, but have fun here. it’s still the same amazing place it was when you left.
Mau5: Sena still a best Haganai. Peace out.
Datch: Nanoha is fucking awesome, holy shit. Thank you again, A’s truly is amazing as you’ve said.
JY: Your enormous and incomprehensible monologues gives me a feeling so complicated. In the end I can’t decipher anything about how you are in real life, but I think that’s a good thing. I was mean to you at more than one point, and I don’t even intend on trying to understand you, but I hope you find success in life.
EW: In the end we don't talk too much anymore, you hanged out mainly in DNF, and I try to avoid that place. Plus, this is rude and all but I prefer the guy EW back then, before the gender reveal. I know back then wasn’t a fun period of your life and you’re much happier now, but just something I felt like saying. With that said, I hope your kid grows strong and well. I don’t reply a lot so it may not seem so, but in hindsight I enjoyed the private conversations we had.
Leokane: As the second last guy I address, worry not, I totally didn’t forget about you until just now or anything. Really. That said we were here for about more or less the same amount of time, so more than anymore else I view you as my equal(I naturally look down or up at people, so that’s rare if I say so myself). Pretty sure I annoyed you more than a few times at some points, but thanks for dealing with me, and I hope things work out for you as well.
Ali: More than anyone else I’m afraid of you. I’m not sure I can word it right, but er, I’m afraid of having pissed you off or annoyed you or disappointed you due to this VN thing. It sounds like I’m blaming you, but I’m not. I’ve been way too reliant on the internet for the longest while now, and I had thoughts of leaving for quite a while actually. We argued a lot(And I’ll admit it, at the end of each one of them I don’t exactly harbor the most pleasant or civil of emotions), but that aside, you’re still my best friend here, on the internet. Due to the chance that perhaps indirect communication over the internet doesn’t really count as real friendship or anything, I won’t say you’re my best friend in the world, but you’re my best friend here. On Word, this is like, more than five pages of text, and even I think I might be a fucking lunatic at this point, but I plan to leave here, where I’ve been lurking for over a year(A short, yet long time), and made some truly irreplaceable moments, I think it’s a little understandable for me to get overly sentimental and autistic about it, right? I’m a long-winded, sappy, sentimental guy, so yeah. Lastly, I won’t reply, whether it be on skype or to this thread, or wherever you decide to contact me. I’m leaving for good/until I can’t take it and come back and face the embarrassment of having typed up that shit-long farewell message. Hell, the reason I addressed as many of you as I did was precisely so I’d feel too embarrassed to talk to you all afterwards. I don’t intend to, or at least, the me at this time don’t intend to come back. While I’m not going to miraculously change overnight and become a dirty disgusting normalfag or anything, I do plan to actually become more serious at studying(I’ve used the excuse of studying many times, yet to be honest I never did), more serious at completing things(Whether it be a visual novel project or that anime series I’m stuck at episode 38 for over half a year)(It’s Macross 7, for reference), and more importantly, more serious at learning Japanese so I can enjoy all the untranslated porn or RPGs or whatnot. It sounds like a very material motive, but this shit’s been my life ever since I watched Doraemon when I was three or something. Pathetic, perhaps, but that’s how I am. Not blaming the chat, but it’s been distracting me from a lot of things. And ever since I avoided the chat due to the VN project, I’ve realized that. Hell, I had the Muv-Luv trilogy in my backlog since forever, and I finished it in a week, that’s a lot I finished. Anyways, if somehow I pull the trigger and do come back, then I've fulfilled the criteria of having a farewell thread in here, finally. Believe it or not this took less than a day to type all out, I have an affinity for overly long things(inb4 penis). I don’t doubt to some this feels like I’m playing the victim trying not to blame anyone, and due to the way I say things, I doubt I can clear that doubt doubtlessly. Either way, I’d like my last words on WDA to be something I can remember, and something I can be proud. And so, I leave with this: Adachi is the killer. | |
| | | SlayerSage WDA Member
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 12:13 am | |
| Danna nyan..... Pls. Don't go. Pls. Who am I gonna mecha fanboy with? Pls Danna, no one's angry at you, hell I'd hate this place if they forced you to leave, and I'd hate you if you thought we'd get angry at you for running away at the project, Dannaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, at least reply to me on skype, being reliant on someone isn't a good thing, I admit, but that doesn't mean you gotta abandon us, at least come in once a week or something e.e Danna pls come back D: | |
| | | Nour Force Magical Girl
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 12:23 am | |
| I don't get it. The VN was just a project made for fun; the little arguments you had with Alibaba and the others are nothing more than little debates. They weren't serious arguments where people got hurt. Everyone joined the VN project to have fun working together. I can understand being inactive to study, but regarding the other games and anime, aren't you already having fun here? I'm not telling you to ignore those, but I don't understand what's wrong with being here. It's fun, isn't it? And if you have time for fun things, then what's wrong with fun things? s: | |
| | | Behemoth Young Fiend
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 12:56 am | |
| Wasn't even mentioned. Damn. | |
| | | Pumpkin Row SKY FIRE
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 2:48 am | |
| Okay. I actually took the time to read all this. Danna, you really shouldn't leave. 95% of this place will miss you, and each time a small community loses a person, especially someone as popular, and well liked as you, it leaves a large void that cannot be filled, no matter how hard one tries. - danna45 wrote:
- making a commotion and all to threaten this already-frail society structure is kinda troublesome and I'd rather you just tried to virus-spam as a farewell or something....yeah.
Something you yourself said. In the end, i don't think leaving will be worth it to you. Even if you don't actually consider us as important as friends you know in person, or believe we don't care about you as much as we would care about someone in person, you will miss the memories we all make together, and the memories we would continue to make were you here. You will certainly miss people like Nour, Amy(Supasmash), Alibaba, Digi, Restart, EW. Even on the off chance you don't miss them, would you really want them to miss you, simply because you couldn't stand afew tiny arguments over a project designed for fun? The main reason an argument would bother one person is because it either hurt or bothered the other person. I can say for sure that Alibaba wasn't bothered by it at all, and probably didn't even give it much thought.
- danna45 wrote:
- To put it short, I'm sorry for wasting everyone's time with the VN project. I was really enthusiastic about it, but then I disappear away and thus the project is dead. It's my fault, and I apologize for wasting the time and/or effort everyone who's involved and is pissed at my failure.
Nobody cares that the project failed. nobody even expected the project to succeed. Yes, it would have been really cool for this project to be completed, but i'm pretty sure everyone was just enjoying the time you were spending working together. the truly saddening thing would be seeing a close friend using it as an opportunity to leave. - danna45 wrote:
- Whether it's cuz I'm a shit leader or I don't have passion, in the end I ran away and everyone's efforts(Which to be honest, wasn’t too much except from Centrik.
I don't even think Centrik is the type to care. You made a fine leader, you just didn't have the proper resources to get the job done. I know the feeling. - danna45 wrote:
- The other reason I’m leaving is that ever since I’ve started avoiding this place for a while, I’ve realized I’m probably too emotionally dependent on the people here. Sounds nice and caring and all, but really that’s not a good thing. I open up the cbox once every few seconds to see what people say before closing because I realize I was supposed to avoid the place, and I feel sad when I’m not chatting, not gonna deny it.
This really isn't a bad thing. I'm emotionally dependent on the people here, and that doesn't make us weak. Everybody needs someone. Even if it's just friends online you vent to, or if you simply forget your problems by having a conversation with them. That just means you have even less reason to leave, and avoid us.
When i first saw this thread, i thought i was tripping. You can't do this to us. You have been here since i joined, not seeing you in the cbox will be awkward. People voted you as WDA member of the year, pretty sure nearly everyone will miss you. You're one of the nicest people in the chat.
- Nour Force wrote:
- I can understand being inactive to study, but regarding the other games and anime, aren't you already having fun here? I'm not telling you to ignore those, but I don't understand what's wrong with being here. It's fun, isn't it? And if you have time for fun things, then what's wrong with fun things? s:
This. Exactly this. You will never find an internet community like this one. Even I will be sad to see you go, especially like this. You understand this is pointless and unreasonable, so that should be enough for you to reconsider. | |
| | | Leviera WDA Member
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:02 am | |
| you ruined my feels for FSN vn goddamnit if you want to leave WDA for a while that is fine, however, if you don't intend to come back i swear I will chase you down and make you come back. your worries are almost non-existent, you are assuming that the vn project is more important than you to us. we don't mind you being emotionally dependent on us, in fact we would love it If you can just stay with us please, danna, we need you here, you will end this journey with a bad taste in everyone's mouth if you leave | |
| | | Kimo Force WDA Staff
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 3:24 am | |
| Everyone else has said everything that I have to say to you. Best of luck, man. Just remember that we'll always be here waiting for you to come back.
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| | | Reikan Baby Turtle
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 7:10 am | |
| *sigh* this sounds like the fights I have with Hannah (my current girlfriend.) Her issues are complex, but simply put its a combination of insecurity, a feeling of lacking independence, general confusion, and just general unhappiness. I think its about once a month stress will build on her so much that she'll break down and amongst this emotional distress she'll try to push me away and confuse my support with her incompetence. I just got over this with her today (the development from being in this fight to making up takes time,) and things are fine now (@Kimo, i've been wanting to tell you that and let you worry less about me.)
I'm not exactly trying to compare you to say at the least, but when it comes to something you love and you love that thing dearly, don't just let it go and give up on it just because you're feeling shitty at the moment. If you truly love something that you value and its something that gives you some real good meaning, then don't go up and throw it away. Come back when you get your shit together and we'll be right here like always.
I really do understand the notion of yearning for independence. It's a very important thing to have and its essential for your well being at the end of the day. Take some time off from us, do some soul searching, and really focus on yourself for a while. But you actually have to make the effort to even do that focusing, something my girlfriend often forgets. Whether you focus or not, that independence will come to you, well really it's going to be forced on you whenever you take up any sort of obligation that you are going to see through or take up any level of responsibility. Hard work and quite literally doing things by yourself also increase your independence stats (yeah i said it, get to that boosting asap.)
I've seen it time and time again, so I understand what you're going through all too well. Do that soul searching and make that decision to come back or not. If its just that lack of independence that is the case, then work on it and come back. We're here to just hang out and talk about things and be silly.
TL DR: get your shit together, don't worry about us, come back later when you feel like it. I won't say farewell or goodbye, but I'll say see you later. You should know how to get a hold of me. | |
| | | Centrik Mini Gear
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 1:51 pm | |
| - danneh wrote:
- Centrik: Really, really sorry to have wasted your musical talent and efforts on something that I’ve effectively abandoned. If I recall, we didn’t really even talk much even though you were present for a long time, only a while later did we talk much and all. Still, keep that k. spirit going strong.
k. I'm always up to making VN. There's no waste in music. It's really easy to make one track since now I can afford a Roland (not really). This topic kept me staying for 1 hour damn. | |
| | | Sukkito WDA Member
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 2:43 pm | |
| Goodbye godfather and good luck!
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| | | Fish WDA Staff
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| Subject: Re: It's truly been fun. Fri Jun 20, 2014 8:36 pm | |
| Man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, man. I respect your decision to leave for your own best interest and wish you the best of luck in the future.
Grow as a person, in terms of your self-confidence, your interests, your abilities, your social skills and when you feel comfortable to return, return. We'll always welcome you back home with open arms.
If not, it was good to make your acquaintance, and have a good one. You're one of the few people who've left this forum that I am explicitly sad to see go. | |
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